The Significance of Motherhood: A Historical and Emotional Perspective
As we approach Mother’s Day, which is celebrated on the second Sunday of May, it is essential to reflect on the historical and emotional significance of motherhood. According to a recent article by Haber Kibris, "Anneliğin kutlanmasının tarihçesine baktığınızda, Antik Çağa doğru bir gezintiye çıkmanız gerekir" ("If you look at the history of Mother’s Day, you need to take a journey back to Ancient Times").
The article highlights that the celebration of motherhood dates back to ancient times, with the spring equinox and the goddess Kibele being associated with the awakening of nature and motherhood. This early recognition of the importance of mothers has continued to evolve over time, with different countries adopting various dates to celebrate Mother’s Day. However, the second Sunday of May has become a widely accepted date, with Haber Kibris noting that "Mayıs’ın ikinci pazarı pek çok ülkenin uyduğu bir tarih olarak kabul edilmiş" ("the second Sunday of May has been accepted as a date by many countries").
Motherhood is a profound experience that carries significant responsibilities and lifelong emotional connections. As Haber Kibris so eloquently puts it, "Anne olmak ciddi bir sorumluluk ve son nefesimize kadar devam eden, vazgeçilmez bir sevgi, şefkat kaynağını yürekte ve akılda taşımakla ilgili bir deneyimdir" ("Being a mother is a serious responsibility and an experience of carrying an unwavering love and source of affection in one’s heart and mind until one’s last breath").
The article goes on to highlight the immense impact that mothers have on their children’s lives, shaping their emotional and psychological well-being. It notes that individuals are often judged based on their relationship with their mothers, with Haber Kibris stating that "Kaç yaşında olursak olalım, sadece ruh hallerimiz değil; becerimiz, başarımız, mutluluğumuz birilerine eksik geldiğinde, kapılar aralanır, sessizce: ‘annesi nasıl yaklaşmış?’" ("Regardless of our age, when our mental state, skills, success, or happiness seem lacking to someone, the door quietly opens, and the question arises: ‘how did their mother approach them?’").
The significance of motherhood extends beyond individual relationships, with Haber Kibris suggesting that societal problems can often be linked to issues with mother-child relationships. The article cites various scenarios where a person’s emotional state or behavior is influenced by their relationship with their mother, with Haber Kibris stating that "Psikoterapide, yaşamla kurulan ilişkinin bu ilk ve çok önemli halkası defalarca aynı zincire ulanır: Anneler… anneler…" ("In psychotherapy, this first and crucial link of the relationship with life is repeatedly connected to the same chain: mothers… mothers…").
In some cases, mothers may be unfairly maligned or marginalized, with Haber Kibris noting that "Bazen, varken yok edilirler. Kadın olma, insan olma ayrıcalık ve hakları; analık mertebesinin aşağılarındaki basamaklara indirilir ya da yok edilir" ("Sometimes, they are destroyed while they exist. The privileges and rights of being a woman, being a human; are reduced or destroyed to the lower rungs of the maternal rank").
However, mothers can also be idealized or invented, with Haber Kibris stating that "Annelerin, yokken var edildikleri de olur, sıklıkla" ("Mothers are often created even when they do not exist"). This can occur when children create idealized versions of their mothers or when others assume maternal roles in their lives.
The article concludes by highlighting the crucial role that fathers play in promoting a positive relationship between their children and their mothers. Citing Theodore Hesburgh, Haber Kibris notes that "bir babanın çocuklarına yapacağı en büyük iyilik, onların annelerini sevmektir" ("the greatest favor a father can do for his children is to love their mother").
In conclusion, the article by Haber Kibris provides a thought-provoking exploration of the significance of motherhood from a historical, emotional, and societal perspective. As we approach Mother’s Day, it serves as a timely reminder of the vital role that mothers play in shaping our lives and the importance of promoting positive relationships between mothers and their children.
Published: 10 May 2025, 10:45 Eastern European Summer Time
Source: https://haberkibris.com/ayla-kahraman-yazdi-anne-olmak-ve-anneler-gunu-1046-2025-05-10.html
